A man who can be identified as Femzy has shared his heartbreak after discovering that his fiancée, whom he had dated for nearly a year, allegedly maintained an active Tinder profile just days before his bachelor’s night, raising doubts about her past and the future of their planned marriage.
He explained that they met after a church service, bonded over shared interests, and quickly built what he believed was a serious relationship.
According to him, both parties had agreed their relationship was headed for marriage, with preparations already in motion for their traditional and white wedding ceremonies.
The drama unfolded when a friend of the man, while browsing Tinder, discovered the fiancée’s active profile.
“She had a bio saying ‘here for serious business’ along with recent pictures,” the man said.
Upon confrontation, she confessed that she had previously engaged in hookups for money due to financial struggles but had stopped when they met.
Following the revelation, both sets of parents advised a cautious approach, recommending full medical checkups before proceeding with the marriage.
The results revealed that the woman had a very weak uterus, drastically lowering her chances of conceiving.
The man described his decision as final, citing both the past activities and medical concerns as reasons to end the engagement.
The post reads, “Met this girl after church service, we vibed, exchanged contacts, went on a dinner date, She said she’s not ready for games that she want something that will leads to marriage & I agreed, We dated for almost a year, then She suggested we should do traditional introduction & met her parents, we did the engagement, and wedding preparations were ongoing.
“Days before my bachelor’s night, my friend was on Tinder looking for a h00kup and found my fiancée’s active profile with bio “here for serious business Dm” with recent pictures, I Confronted her she confessed she used to do h00kups for money due to financial issues but stopped when we met, I was disappointed after spending heavily on introduction and weeding preparations.
“She begged, involved her parents, then My parents advised we do full medical checkups first, if she’s okay medically then I can decide what to do, Went to an advance hospital and the medical results says she has a very weak uterus, which gave her extremely low chance of getting pregnant, With this I ended the relationship completely & I was disappointed.”
